Facebook and Apple Now Pay For Female Employees To Freeze Their Eggs 253
Dave Knott writes: While freezing eggs has become an increasingly popular practice for career-oriented women, the procedure comes at a steep price: Costs typically add up to at least $10,000 for every round, plus $500 or more annually for storage. Now two Silicon Valley giants are offering women a game-changing perk: Apple and Facebook will pay for employees to freeze their eggs. They appear to be the first major employers to offer this coverage for non-medical reasons, both offering to cover costs up to $20,000. Tech firms are hardly alone in offering generous benefits to attract and keep talent, but they appear to be leading the way with egg freezing.
Advocates say they've heard murmurs of large law, consulting, and finance firms helping to cover the costs, although no one is broadcasting this support. Companies may be concerned about the public relations implications of the benefit – in the most cynical light, egg-freezing coverage could be viewed as a ploy to entice women to sell their souls to their employer, sacrificing childbearing years for the promise of promotion. Will the perk pay off for companies? The benefit will likely encourage women to stay with their employer longer, cutting down on recruiting and hiring costs. And practically speaking, when women freeze their eggs early, firms may save on pregnancy costs in the long run. A woman could avoid paying to use a donor egg down the road, for example, or undergoing more intensive fertility treatments when she's ready to have a baby. But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings.
Advocates say they've heard murmurs of large law, consulting, and finance firms helping to cover the costs, although no one is broadcasting this support. Companies may be concerned about the public relations implications of the benefit – in the most cynical light, egg-freezing coverage could be viewed as a ploy to entice women to sell their souls to their employer, sacrificing childbearing years for the promise of promotion. Will the perk pay off for companies? The benefit will likely encourage women to stay with their employer longer, cutting down on recruiting and hiring costs. And practically speaking, when women freeze their eggs early, firms may save on pregnancy costs in the long run. A woman could avoid paying to use a donor egg down the road, for example, or undergoing more intensive fertility treatments when she's ready to have a baby. But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings.
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They're making it pretty damn clear that life is completely insignificant to work.
re: work/life balance (Score:2)
I believe there *are* companies out there where you can make it the main focus of your life, working for them, and actually have some justification for doing so.
In the current tech sector, there are really only a few that come to mind. I'd say Google would be one. Apple would be another. Facebook tries to be yet another, but I have mixed feelings on whether or not they've really "arrived" in that way.
I'm talking about companies that have earned a lot of respect for continuously doing things that make people
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The goal presumably is to discourage women from making the 'wrong' career decision by creating the illusion that they can just postpone child-bearing. Some will, and some will fall into the trap and never escape their career.
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Rated funny? I would have given it +1 Sad if that were an option.
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The effects on the babies (and mothers) [health.com] be damned...
Seriously, this is a half-measure. If we really want to help women stay in the workforce, we ought to develop incubators. Facebook and Apple may have the monies to fund the necessary research and pilot programs.
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As an added bonus, they can start having babies when they're 45!
Having children early and starting a career at the same time can be very rough, but there's a lot to be said for still having a life to look forward to once they're grown and out of the house. Added bonus is you'll probably be around long enough to enjoy grandparenthood and possibly even great-grandparenthood.
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What an eggcellent idea!
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amniote amused... (Score:2)
Ovary good. Very good indeed.
Re: So... (Score:4, Funny)
I remember... in the long-ago days of my youth... before the Oxford Comma Wars... paragraph breaks were in abundance... we didn't have to hoard them as we do today...
Those were happier times.
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Apparently people in your timestream are suffering an overabundance of ellipses now in compensation for the paragraph break shortage?
Re:Sexism (Score:5, Interesting)
No, this is sexism against women.
First - freezing the eggs is simple, but getting them is not. It's not risk-free, and not at all a non-event. If you do not believe me, stab yourself in the balls with knitting needles 20 times after giving yourself a hormone injection every day for a few weeks.
Second. Signalling that healthy women should consider infertility treatment is just absurd. If they work so much now so they don't have time to find someone, is this really the solution to the correct problem?
Helping women (and men) with fertility problems is noble and good (maybe - it's also very hard to adopt children.) But pitched like this, it's just sick.
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>> If they work so much now so they don't have time to find someone, is this really the solution to the correct problem?
Why do you presume they haven't yet "found the right man"? Maybe they just don't want to have kids yet, but realize that it's far better/cheaper/safer to extract eggs at 24 instead of 38?
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The risks for the egg-removing is the same more or less, but the chance of a successful implant is decreased while the risks of pregnancy increases with age.
Technically, you freeze zygotes if you have a partner, but that's perhaps what they meant.
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Are they offering to freeze sperm of the young men...that might not want a kid early too. Sperm quality and motility degrade a man's age too, why are they not being offered this service/perk?
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1. The disparity remains even after correcting for career differences. Women within the same career make substantially less, in virtually every career.
2. The differences in careers between men and women are also a result of sexism. So the headline number of 70 cents on the dollar is the correct one to use.
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Yay!
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If you want to only pay for the medical expenses YOU use, then what you want is not insurance but just pay out of pocket for everything. Insurance is a *shared* way of distributing costs. Many such costs will NEVER be relevant to you.
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I agree that there are many better solutions than the system we have in the US today but there are options if one disagrees with the social norms (birth control is a social norm, for example). One could opt out of employer purchased health insurance and buy ones own from a company that does not cover birth control. Insurance is a shared experience by a group. One has to balance their views with the views of the group. It's silly to insist that the rest of the group follow one's worldview when one could join
Enterprise backup (Score:5, Funny)
Someone let the IT guy into the HR office again.
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helping women be more productive human beings.
Did I just read that?
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you can equal pay if you freeze the eggs and don;t take maternity leave?!!!
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clearly I don't make the money I do for my typing skills... wish I was a programmer or some such so I could enable the editing feature on this site.
It's a TRAP! (Score:2, Insightful)
So, if you leave the company or are terminated, will they continue to hold these eggs for you until you want them at no charge? Will they pay for the implanting and provide maternity benefits even though you're no longer an employee - which they would have had to do if you had chosen to get preggy while you were working for them?
"Oh, sorry, you're over 40, but we terminated you because "your skills are now outdated." Thanks for saving us a lot more than if you had decided to have a child earlier on, su
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wonder if they can just freeze me for the next 40 years... let my 401 mature and unthaw me. :)
hmmm they could just offer this AS the retirement plan. we invest your last paycheck, freeze you until its worth something. Yes your whole family is dead by the time we thaw you, but at least your eggs/future children will be thawed with you
Re:Enterprise backup (Score:5, Insightful)
As if ensuring the survival of the human race isn't "productive". And, personally, I can''t think of anything more important that my wife does than be the awesome mother she is to our children. Now, while she's young and has the energy to go outside and play with them...
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And, personally, I can''t think of anything more important that my wife does than be the awesome mother she is to our children
That's fine, but I don't want to hear a lot of whining from your household about women getting paid $0.70 for every dollar men make, or whatever. Being likely to bail out of the workforce for years at a time has a downside, and that is it.
Re:Enterprise backup (Score:5, Insightful)
A mother does much much more than "look after" children. I'm sorry you didn't have one.
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Depends on your definition of "look after". Do you mean the legally required minimal necessities of life, or raising them to be independent, well-adjusted, and productive members of society?
Re:Enterprise backup (Score:4, Insightful)
Would still want her home with the kids so that they learn our traditions and culture not some random nanny's. I have a stay at home wife, it has cost us in monetary terms but it has bought us unending dividends by allowing our children to know their heritage and to learn from their parent.
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We at acmecorp treat all of our humani-bots equally (shitty).
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Really? (Score:5, Insightful)
"helping women be more productive human beings." Because working at Apple is more productive than raising a family?
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How many iPhones did your kids sell last quarter?
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That's a question you would need to ask each individual woman. And respect each answer either way.
So I take it (Score:2)
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So, if they install a wheelchair ramp for a disabled employee at your company, do you demand they spend the same amount on amenities for everyone else? If they employ an on-site councillor to help employees deal with stress but you never use the service, do you demand they employ someone to mow your lawn instead?
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So, if they install a wheelchair ramp for a disabled employee at your company, do you demand they spend the same amount on amenities for everyone else? If they employ an on-site councillor to help employees deal with stress but you never use the service, do you demand they employ someone to mow your lawn instead?
No, GP poster insists that they break his kneecaps and install random flashing lights in his cube so that he can take advantage of the same benefits.
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Pregnancy is not a disability.
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Neither is illness, mental or otherwise. The point is that different people have different needs, and feeling that you are somehow disadvantaged because you have fewer needs and thus get less support is just trying really hard to be a victim.
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How do you know that other parties have fewer needs? I don't like seeing carve-outs that are specific to one group over another. Insurance was meant to be a risk pool. Instead, it has turned into a discount card, or even a free pass. Hospitals are expensive, and having a child is super expensive, I get that. But is that reason enough to pull from a risk pool that also goes to pay for things like cancer, multiple sclerosis, life threatening injury, and so on? People generally don't know that they're go
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http://www.edd.ca.gov/disabili... [ca.gov]
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One of a long list of things that California gets wrong.
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Are you equating being female with having a disability?
Disabled people need the extra help to make up their literal disability. Women are not considered disabled, and thus should not need an extra helping hand...
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Am I prohibited from walking up that ramp, or pushing the automatic door button, or using the bigger "handicapped" bathroom stall? Nope. I am legally prohibited from parking in the marked handicap parking spaces, without a permit.
Those "amenities" weren't installed for that sole employee. They were done to meet federal law. ("ADA")
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Assuming this is actually good for society by allowing would be mothers to postpone children a bit longer during their peak productive years, then this is an example of "unfair" sexism being good for society. Proving that sexism isn't inherently bad.
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Yes, married men with spouses at Apple will no longer have to share with their spouse the cost of egg freezing.*
* doesn't help men not in this position.
** Apple policy doesn't help women not in a particular position either.
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So, smart tech firms should be hiring women, who work for substantially less money than men, all other things being equal.
But they aren't. Why? Because men hate women!
Because studies show ... (Score:3)
... that women who have children don't have time to work but men who have children do?
What percentage of women's down time for giving birth is larger than a man's golfing time?
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I'd add that, as a man, I'd like to see paternity time increased. When my first child was born, I was lucky enough to be able to take a week off of work to help. My wife had just given birth and while I can't ever completely know how hard that is, I knew enough to know that she would be exhausted so I took care of our new baby as much as I could - giving her time to rest up. Had I been able to take longer than a week, I would have.
When our second child was born, I took a couple of days off, but wasn't able to take the week-long stretch that I took the first time.
Many new fathers are looked down upon if they try to take time off to look after the new baby. There was one baseball player who was recently castigated by a sports announcer for daring to miss the first game of the season because his wife gave birth. He decided that helping his wife and new baby were more important than a baseball game. The sports announcer literally thought that the ball player's first priority should be to the game and not his family.
Better paternity leave will also help women in the workplace because then the burden on taking care of the baby post-birth can be split evenly instead of just being tossed on the woman. (And then having people say "If we hire women they might leave to take care of their babies.")
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but...but you are promoting a healthier social society rather than a more profitable corporate infrastructure.
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Wow, which sporter announcer was this?
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No they don't. Not in my province anyway.
This is straight from my companys HR database:
Written notice required before LOA start date at least three weeks
Parental LOA for birth mother and natural father 52 weeks*
Combined Pregnancy/Parental LOA for birth mother 70 weeks*
Combined Paternity/Parental LOA for natural father 57 weeks*
Parental LOA for adoptive parents 52 weeks *
Earliest date Parental LOA can begin The week of the child's birth or placement in adoption.
Required start or End date of
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Wait.... I'm not arguing paternity leave isn't good, but who gets cheated when you opt to have a child and get paid by your employer for nothing? So an employer gives an extra paid week off, and you call him "cheated?" The culture of entitlement at it's best.
It is part of the labor contract.
Is it? If you negotiated that with your employer, it's one thing; if it's a government mandate that people be paid for not working, then the idea that the employee is being "cheated" for only getting a week off is absolute bullshit. I'm not arguing employers shouldn't offer it, I'm arguing against the entitlement mentality.
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Thank you! I'm seeing a lot of comments here about how wonderful it is to make the choice to be a stay-at-home-mom, how great it is for the kids, and how that's not less productive than a high-paying job. But I'm not seeing the equivalent for men, that there's a tough choice between "being a dad" (stay at home dad) and "being a man" (with a job), that each male should be encouraged to make the choice that's right for him without pressure from his employer.
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emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings.
Women are human beings?
I am seriously appalled at that parting shot. I think choosing to pursue a career vs raising a family is a perfectly valid option. Bonus points if you can do both, but there are trade-offs for any of the choices.
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encourage women to stay with their employer longer
Yeah, yeah, that's fine. "Encourage." Right up until the employer starts pressuring a woman into doing so and committing to her career before she can move ahead. For instance, unofficially giving preference to those who have done so when promoting/hiring. Might be a non-issue, as a woman could still choose to have children unless she's taken steps to remove that possibility.
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Promoting people who have shown more dedication and put in more hours? When will the discrimination end!
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we have your eggs, get back to work
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Yeah, that was my thought on skimming TFA. If the company pays, what happens if the woman leaves the job (be it quitting, fired, laid off)? Does she have to pay back some or all of the amount the company paid in order to keep access to her eggs? What if the company goes under? I couldn't find mention of this in the article.
Also, the line quoted by jargonburn ("helping women be more productive human beings") is the parting quote from the article said by Christy Jones, founder of Extend Fertility. I expected
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Women are human beings?
Slashdot ate my [/Sarcasm] tag, if it wasn't apparent from the context.
Wait, what? (Score:3, Insightful)
What Apple et al are doing is helping women be more PROFITABLE FOR THE SHAREHOLDERS as work units, not as Human Beings.
Seriously, if "human being" really means "Work Unit" to these people, maybe it is time to find another employer.
"helping women be more productive human beings" (Score:4, Insightful)
I just sit and stare that that last sentence in the summary and shake my head.
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What a sad commentary (Score:2)
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shooting themselves in the foot (Score:5, Interesting)
And in 20yrs they'll be screaming that there are now tech workers.
Where did they all go?
Well back in 2014 you paid all the smart women not to have kids so....
Brilliant!
An Obscenity (Score:5, Insightful)
"But the emotional and cultural payoff may be more valuable, helping women be more productive human beings."
Some people would assert that raising happy, healthy, well-adjusted and well-loved children makes a more "productive" and "valuable" human being than working at a law firm or technology company.
But hey, I'm old fashioned.
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Yes, and some people might believe the opposite - that they're more productive in their prime childbearing years working at a company rather than raising a child, but would like the opportunity to put off parenthood until later in life.
Now they have the *option* of doing so without having to pay out of pocket.
They had literally exactly the same opportunity before, but they had to pay for it themselves. Now it's an optional perk.
Call me old fashioned, but I believe the comments in this article are a hilariou
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I wonder if the spin would have been different if it were Google and Canonical announcing this? Nah, surely not. Slashdot isn't partisan in the slightest.
If it were Canonical there's be a royal turd-storm over how long this latest initiative will last before they can it, same as so many other products in the past.
And if it were google, with that same last line about allowing women to be more productive, it would be the same reaction, because it's stupid as all heck.
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Hey, there's nothing wrong with prioritizing your life over your childrens', it just generally doesn't produce very good people.
And if you think that building a better career so you can have more wealth and give your child more opportunities is worth the tradeoff, you probably don't really understand how much of parenting is about stuff other than dollars, anyway.
EA is going to do this next, I can feel it. (Score:2)
This is a pretty good example of a policy that, even if it's well-intentioned, kind of sends up a red flag about the company. This would tell me that employees who do not give over their souls to the company and complain about 90-hour death march weeks on projects will be replaced by the 100 other women lining up for their jobs.
The other thing all these hard-working 20something women need to look into is the actual amount of effort required to turn those frozen eggs back into kids. My wife went through 2 su
Good in that it provides another option, but... (Score:2)
Given that, choosing to be a parent can have a bigger impact on a woman's career than a man's. Even as a man I've made career choices that I wouldn't have made if I didn't have my responsibilities as a parent to consider. It's worse for women.
So while
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You bring up a good point, one that causes a lot of friction between the generations. Since Millennials are delaying or skipping the whole parenthood thing, there is often a comparison in workplaces between the 20something who just got done pulling 2 all nighters to get the (whatever) working vs. the 30 or 40something who had to take another sick day because they had to take care of their sick kid. In bad workplaces it amounts to a subtle form of age discrimination. In more enlightened workplaces (like mine
Slippery Slope (Score:2)
From this article on the subject:
http://blogs.wsj.com/digits/20... [wsj.com]
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From this article on the subject: http://blogs.wsj.com/digits/20... [wsj.com]
The last sentence is key. You can bet we are inching towards this $10,000 elective procedure being mandated by American health insurance, which means men will be the ones paying for it through taxes as demonstrated here:
http://money.cnn.com/2013/05/1... [cnn.com]
The sheer fact Apple and facebook are doing this is a "slippery slope". Give feminists an inch, and they will take a mile, and then blame you for not giving two miles. And the idea of giving $10,000 to a man to start a family? Nahhhhhhhh.
If a couple decides to delay having kids and takes advantage of this benefit, doesn't the husband (a male most likely) save $10,000 as well?
;)
And last I checked, women were taxpayers too.
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Are Kindergardens illegal? (Score:2)
Or is it illegal for a company to found a kindergarden and afternoon care and offer its service to the employees?
This egg freezing sounds retarded, how long is a woman supposed to postpone having children?
Usually not work related (Score:2)
Sometimes it's health related (Score:2)
A friend of mine had her eggs frozen because she was going to go through chemo.
She was married, one kid and diagnosed with breast cancer.
Before she started chemo, the doctors told them that there was a chance of infertility afterward.
So she had her eggs frozen (after fertilizing them - apparently they do better that way)
She had a masectomy and chemo.
And now she's had a 2nd kid. (I don't know if they used a frozen egg or not. I don't think there's a polite way to ask that question, and it doesn't matter
The next step... (Score:2)
Exceptionally bad language (Score:3)
They say the art of language is dead.
The asshole in me wants to tell you that you take that as a slap in the face because you already, on some level, believe that you are a less productive employee (person, citizen).
In reality, this is true in the sense that your company does not come first, your family does. Your time is split, and the profit of your employer is not your number one priority, your family is. (As it should be, I should add). There is no politically correct way to say, "we're going to offer
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Yes, the "good reasoning" is that raising children is less important than corporate profits.
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more of a comment on society as a whole.
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As i said, more of a comment on society as a whole rather than the corporation itself.
*Actual* blatant discrimination (Score:2)
Your post was a joke, but my post is not: I would be extremely annoyed, as male, if I were working for one of these companies, that I would be unable to take advantage of that offer. I would love to be a father at some point, that point not being anytime soon, and we both have to work. Would drive me crazy knowing that if I were the female, the problem would be solved, but being male, not so much.
I don't work for either of them anyway, I work for a much smaller company that is rather unlikely to offer any s
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You can but it is medically pointless. Men can (almost) always produce sperm even when they're 90+ years old. Women run out of eggs somewhere between their late 30's and early 50's.
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I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If women want to take all of the jobs, I'm good with that. I'm looking forward to being a 1950's house wife in 2015 -- you know, with modern kitchen appliances, big-screen tv's, music in every room, and modern cleaning tools. I'll even throw in DIY home renovations if it means that I don't need to deal with commuting, clients, bosses, and, you know, actual work. We won't even discuss spending time with children. Men, it's time to let women work hard and pay for everything. I'm ready to stay home and cook -- I love to cook.
I did the "stay at home Dad" thing for a few years. It is a pretty sweet deal in many respects. Today I do contract development work and am at home as often as I can be.
Many of the parenting tasks were mind numbing and thankless, but that's so different from software development. My wife would sometimes complain that I was putting too much effort into child activities, but I think think the results were awesome. Not only did I get to spend a bunch of time with my kids during their formative years, I got to
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Declining populations are problematic in several ways as well since many economic systems are designed around growth.
I don't disagree that unchecked world wide population growth isn't good